HOUSE OF CHAINS
Humble dwellings and personal lair of Master Kane the noble beast
POWER PLAY
A Dominant is always in control, this is a lot of work and takes great responsibility. As a Dom you will degrade a sub because you respect them, you will hurt a sub because you love them. Their is never any cause or deep rooted feeling of anger, hate or disgust, this is not being a Dom.
A Dom's control makes him/her responsible for the quality of the sex you and your sub experiences.
It is your sole responsibility for him/her to have a god time and enjoy the scene. This will allow the sub total freedom to shut off their brain and submit. This is a great trust the sub puts in their Dom and cannot be taken lightly.
THE BOTTOM LINE - CONTROL
The Dom makes the choices, gives the orders and dishes out the punishments when needed, but ultimately the sub has the power, Its up to the sub what is unacceptable. They will always have the final say as to what her Dom can or cannot do with or to them.
The only choice a sub has to make in a full power exchange relationship is continuing to choose to give away his/her control and power, this control, this power must always be wilfully given and in so doing this it allows the Dom to manipulate this energy, as well as feed it back to his sub creating a cycle of energy exchange much like a circuit board or the concept of yin and yang, a balance.
Every thing you do is about your sub and making him/her happy and every choice you make needs to be the best one. If you cant handle this dynamic then being a Dom is not for you.